IBS Triggers

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Beyond Stress Management: How Meeting Your Emotional Needs Can Reduce Chronic Stress and Build Resilience

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Beyond Stress Management: How Meeting Your Emotional Needs Can Reduce Chronic Stress and Build Resilience

"Are you managing stress... or just surviving it?

After years of working with people experiencing chronic stress, I've realised something important: most stress management advice treats symptoms, not causes.

My latest article explores how the Human Givens model reveals why traditional stress relief often falls short - and how targeting your specific unmet emotional needs can create lasting change instead of temporary relief.

If you've been doing 'all the right things' but still feel stuck in the stress cycle, this post might offer a different perspective.

What I cover: The 9 emotional needs that drive wellbeing (and stress when unmet); How to map stress management techniques to your specific needs; A strategic approach that goes beyond symptom management.

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Feelings - name them to tame them

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Feelings - name them to tame them

‘Name it to Tame it.’ is a simple, yet effective method for reducing the intensity of feelings. You can use Name it to Tame it whenever you're feeling stressed or anxious (or experiencing any other uncomfortable feeling). It only takes a few seconds and can be used anytime you feel an uncomfortable spike in feelings.

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Keeping a food intake diary

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It’s important for an IBS sufferer to gain an understanding, if possible, of the nature of their unique symptom triggers. How, when and what we eat can have a huge effect on the bowel. It’s important to eat regular well balanced, moderately sized meals rather than eat at irratic meal times and portion sizes.

One way of gaining an understanding of which foods are triggering your symptoms, that is often recommended, is the food diary. By keeping a food intake diary you may be able to identify amd remove problematic foods from your diet.

A potential problem with food diaries, identified by Professor Peter Whorwell in his book ‘Take Control of Your IBS’ is when a person has an intolerance to a certain food, the effect may take a few days to come on. In addition the dose’ of that food may be important. For instance, if you eat a food, to which you have some degree of intolerance, once a week it may not affect you, but if you eat it every day it may cause problems.

Bearing this caveat in mind a food diary can help you to gain a good idea of which foods seem to cause you the most problems. It’s really useful to know your ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’ foods although there may be some foods that you can’t be sure about.

A handy food diary template is provided by BUPA.